Tuesday, April 5, 2011

Mom away from Mom : )


Hey it's mom, Deb....


I must add to this saga. Yes Mau, you are Stephanie's mom when she's away. I believe this is trip #3 to the hospital this season? Coach, sister, friend or however you choose to refer her as, it's obvious she is like a mother to Stephanie.


When I first learned of her surgery Tuesday evening I frantically made flight arrangements to arrive in Denver the next morning to be with her. But knowing Mau was by Stephanie's side, a sudden calm came over me and gave me a sense of comfort.


Once I landed in Denver, the two and 1/2 hour drive to Vail was excruciating! I knew time was ticking and I had hoped to be there before they took her into surgery, but realized it was getting late and they had to move forward. Giving consent over the phone to the surgeon and anesthesiologist was so surreal. I began to get nervous. I then asked to speak with Stephanie. A little voice, but brave and confident assuring me that she will be okay. Who was comforting who here?? I told her how much I loved her and I assured her that I would be there when she woke up... Now my only hope was to get there in time... As the shuttle pulled up to the hospital, I received a text from Mau telling me Stephanie was out of surgery and everything went well. Charlie met me in the lobby and brought me to Stephanie's room. Stephanie was still very groggy from the anesthesia and as I walked up to her bed she looked at me and tears started to flow. I too was overwhelmed with relief and, once again so very proud of her.


It was that moment I realized Mau needed a break. LOL, she was like a walking zombie. After all, she hasn't slept since before the red-eye flight back from Alaska the night before. Stephanie stayed in the hospital that night. We were all relieved that the surgery was a success and over! The next day she started therapy. Dr. Sterrett and strength trainer back home, Ernie Baul discussed post-surgery plans.


And last..we cannot forget those who held up the fort back home. Thank you Bob Wineman for stepping up and helping Sarah take care of the animals etc back home.


I've said it before and I'll say it again....Stephanie's determination in proceeding to the Paralympics continues because of your love and support behind her.